Two years ago, I became an independent jewelry designer for a company that’s built on doing more of what you love with the people you love. As a charms based company, there’s an extensive selection of charms that represent family, hobbies, seasons, sports, and much more. But, my favorite charms in the collection are the engravables, because they can be customized with dates, initials, names, and quotes. These are particularly appealing to me, because they’ve given me the opportunity to wear my values on my wrist. Each time I look down I can be reminded of what I believe and stand for.
My most prized engravable is my hematite geo bar that reads, “little things.” If you’ve been following my posts over the years, you probably know that I base my life on the little things. For me, the small gestures of kindness toward myself, my presence for the celebratory and even non-celebratory moments for loved ones and friends, and the thoughtful gifts that I curate or purchase is what brings me the most happiness. I try to be intentional about the way I care for myself and those in my life by not being consumed with flashiness. Instead I purposely choose to invest my time, energy, and being into what makes my soul smile. Some days that might mean that I stand outside and listen to the whistle of the wind, go to the library to see if my knowledge of Dewey Decimal System is up to par (yes, I know what that is!), or randomly mail a card to someone letting them know I’m proud of what they’re doing. I do this because I’ve recognized that it’s the small things that we often take for granted that bring delight to our days and a boost to who we are as human beings. When we remove our focus from the little things it’s easier to become overwhelmed, overworked, and overly consumed by materialistic or shallow things and feelings. That instantly robs us of the ability to appreciate our blessings and privileges.
If I could give one piece of life advice, I’d say do more of the little things. That could come in the form of saying “no” when you know you’re not really committed, finally booking the plane ticket for the vacation you’ve never taken because you don’t want to get behind, not feeling guilty for leaving work on time so you can grab dinner with friends, devoting a portion of your day to pursuing your passions, calling the family member you haven’t heard from in a while, or eating the slice of cheesecake because you want to celebrate an accomplishment. The truth is that all of those little things will be the peace that you’ve likely searched for in other places. Everything we do doesn’t have to be big, bold, and witnessed by the masses. But, everything we do should be a collective representation of every little thing that makes us stress less and cherish more of what we love while we’re here.